you are viewing a single comment's thread.

view the rest of the comments →

[–]powpowpowpow 18 insightful - 1 fun18 insightful - 0 fun19 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

I am a straight woman and when I was a teen I was very confused about myself, I used to self harm and I was sexually harrassed which made me hate myself a lot.

Sometimes I would think about becoming a man because I thought it would make things easier, I also had a FtM friend and if I'm not mistaken there is a study showing that girls with trans friends often start idetifying as trans too.

As I grew up I stopped hating myself and being disgusted with my body, so to me its not only a trend and a fetish but also a major problem where they use and groom vulnerable kids to further their own movement

Edit: I also think they conveluted the meaning of "gender dysphoria" bc to me it seems like a rebranded body dismorphia, which is something I still suffer with but as I said nowadays I don't feel disgusted with my body anymore so it is mild now.

But when I would look up online as to why I hated my body so much, why I cried when I saw myself in the mirror all it would take me was to gender dysphoria.

Idk why I didn't get conviced I was trans, I think it was because I knew I didn't hate being female rather I hated what people did to me because I was female (sexual harrassment, older men chasing me on the street, etc...)

[–][deleted] 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I see. I can see what straight girls and women could identify as men due to misogyny and social pressure. Thanks for this comment.

[–]powpowpowpow 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Thanks. I've seen MtF detransioners mention social pressure too and anxiety, there are a lot of autistic detransioners that ended up thinking they were trans too. I would say a large chunk of them are fetishists that drag others with them to feel as though their fetish is legitimate

[–][deleted] 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Oh ok. The idea that a heterosexual man who’s feminine could feel like a “failure of a man”, especially in today’s climate where believing you’re trans is one click away on any social media, seems plausible to me. But I do agree the vast majority are just plain fetishists.