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[–]grammaroo 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

there seems to be a constant pattern of people appropriating identities in such malicious ways; AGP straight men to women: "we're more women than normal women because we CHOOSE to be women and we can teach them a few things about being women" AGP men to Lesbians: "we're more lesbian than you and can give you a few pointers on what it means to be an ACTUAL lesbian. And bisexuals to gays (i've seen this too): "95% of us have no ability to form an emotional bond or romantic desires for the same sex but we're SO GAY and gayer than you!" and the delusional quote "bi relationships are NOTHING like hetero relationships.... theyre exactly the same because the psychological profile of bi women are 100% similar to that of straight women to the point where they're incompatible with dating the same sex because of their internalized homophobia that they've turned into an identity (hetero romantic).

These people were throwing rocks at gays and lesbians during the pride marches when they happened and expressing outrage and disgust that gays/lesbians wanted marriage equality but suddenly we're the bestest of friends now that after years of sabotage, they failed to prevent a successful community from forming to humanize ourselves to heterosexuals lol.

They'll just as easily be slandering gays/lesbians and do it with glee, forget their "same sex fetish" when global warming finally escalates and turns our political climate very toxic and the heterosexuals run to christianity and become more religious. Again, i dont know why we're "allies" with these people when they require heterosexual approval to even associate with us in the most superficial ways possible. You'll never meet a more homophobic group of people. it's like that bisexual girl who dyed her hair "blue" to feel queer. they dont see human rights/civil rights. they just see the rainbow stickers, alcohol and pride parades.

[–]chandra 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, they seem to think that sex and sexuality are clubs and that the more enthusiastic and inclusive you are the more legitimate you are. So a regular-old gay man is less gay than a straight person who is OMG SO HYPED TO BE PART OF THE QUEER COMMUNITY and lives out all the queer tumblr stereotypes.