it's much more harder to find women that actually enjoy women for who they are (their whole body) than dudes who accept dudes as who they are. why is there such a gap ? it just looks like women can't love themselves enough to be actually chill.

I find it frustrating as well. It's hard to love ourselves when the society tell us we're not good enough. Women are expected to wear makeup (our natural makeup-free face isn't good enough somehow), shamed for being not curvy, shamed for being curvy, shamed for being flat-chested, harassed for having big breasts, being called sl*t for being sexually adventurous, being called prude for being sexually reserved, etc. Women are stuck between a rock and a hard place. We're capable of loving ourselves and not giving a fuck to what society expects us to be, but it takes a lot to reach that point.

women are just fine the way they are.

YES! I wish more women would come to this conclusion!