Colonizationso many "transbien" on the "lesbianactually" reddit sub... i dont get it

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[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 6 fun12 insightful - 5 fun13 insightful - 6 fun -  (7 children)

Women are much more difficult than men. More emotional and demanding and selective. Dealing with women is way more difficult. But also gay dudes are known to be promiscious and for the gay guys who want an emotional connection is hard too. There was a bi man comment saying men are easier to get and deal with, but women are more emotioanl rewarding. I agree with it. Also you can see how getting matches on tinder as a woman seeking woman is far harder than for men seeking men, because women are just more selective. It's because of evolution , tge fact women choose the mate to get them pregnant and so they must to be selective, also since we're more into relationship being selective is more required. I do envy bi women, because if I were bisexual I wouldn't have this horrible fear of staying alone, when my parents die. I know as an hetero girl, finding decent relationship is very easy, while as a girl with like 2 percent max of dating population and with demanding female sex, it isn't at all. I swear I'm even forced myself to like dick, but I cant'. I love pussy. I mean look at my flair, it means long live to pussy in Italian. Italian men love to say it often :D

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

I'd say it is harder to deal with "fragile male ego" than with women. Or maybe it is because I just love women and deal with them more :D

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 12 insightful - 8 fun12 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 8 fun -  (3 children)

Women got ego too and can be abusive and literally crazy. Women are not saints at all., Surely a relationship between women is way better, but then you need to find the right one, which isn't easy at all. Marry me? ;)

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (2 children)

Elvy!

[–]Elvira95Viva la figa 8 insightful - 6 fun8 insightful - 5 fun9 insightful - 6 fun -  (0 children)

You know I'm fucking in love, damn it. lol

[–]reluctant_commenter 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Women are much more difficult than men. More emotional and demanding and selective.

Those are kind of broad generalizations, I think. For example, men can be very emotional, they just tend to express it in anger (sometimes very out of control, lol).

[–]Tarlatan 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Maybe the word you're looking for is "domination."

[–]YoutiaoLover 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

it's much more harder to find women that actually enjoy women for who they are (their whole body) than dudes who accept dudes as who they are. why is there such a gap ? it just looks like women can't love themselves enough to be actually chill.

I find it frustrating as well. It's hard to love ourselves when the society tell us we're not good enough. Women are expected to wear makeup (our natural makeup-free face isn't good enough somehow), shamed for being not curvy, shamed for being curvy, shamed for being flat-chested, harassed for having big breasts, being called sl*t for being sexually adventurous, being called prude for being sexually reserved, etc. Women are stuck between a rock and a hard place. We're capable of loving ourselves and not giving a fuck to what society expects us to be, but it takes a lot to reach that point.

women are just fine the way they are.

YES! I wish more women would come to this conclusion!

[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

You know, even if we said, yes we homosexuals are just genital fetishists, so we want to make a female with vaginas only sub, they will accuse you of transphobia and ban you, even though, I’m told, there’s all sorts of misogynistic porn subs that stay. (No kink shaming!!1!) Seems like a gap in woke ideology.