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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you for your answer. What you suggested me saying to her was what I tried to convey to her. If I conveyed it right? I don't know. Especially because I feel straight people literally have no clue what it's like to be gay and in a minority on a daily basis. It's very far from rainbows all the time.

From what you've described, the dating scene for gay men sound very identical to lesbians. I was speaking in particular about my country, where TRA ideology isn't still very strong here. In my country, there's 0 lesbian visibility and almost none lesbian places. However, there's several gay bars/places and there's much more gay men visibility overall. Maybe I shouldn't have generalized as I was speaking from my own background.