Hello everyone.
This is more of a rant. Basically, this is one more proof that literally no one, no one at all, gives a damn sh*t about lesbians. Not even supposedly "supportive" straight people. It's so damn isolating and frustrating sometimes because we, lesbian women, are so few that we get outnumbered by other people who invade our spaces. And unlike gay men, it seems we have our spaces much more invaded by "queer" girls, aka spicy straight girls, than gay men have with queer men. Probably for social reasons.
So basically, a straight friend of mine told me she's using an online app to find dates and, despite her being straight, she matches both men and women, but with women she only wants friendship. And according to her, she has that in her profile. Her justification was that she saw other women doing it, so she thought it would be okay. She asked my opinion.
I was honest and tried to be the most polite possible. But like for real, can't we lesbians have a FUCKING space for ourselves without a bunch of non lesbians invading our spaces?? No one cares about us. No one actually stops to think about our struggles and how freaking hard it is to actually find each other. Can't they make female friendships literally anywhere else????? Besides, she also thinks sexuality is fluid and can be changed.
I'm a pretty calm person, so I was pretty chill about it, despite honest. But I truly have no words. We literally have no respect whatsoever.
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