gay spaces are invaded by everyone, including lesbians. Just because gay people dont complain about it to you doesnt mean it doesnt happen. we just assume no one outside of our kind cares and we're right. I met my husband on grindr and all my friends on there too (all gay). Now bisexuals and heterosexuals have flooded it and ruined it. They fulfill their homophobic projections: "grindr is for sex! all gay men do is have sex! surely they dont mind since it's a worthless sex whore house!"...it was an electornic gaydar for gay people just to find each other. It's loaded with straight women, straight women who THINK theyre gay men, grindr is actively opening itself up to everyone. The overwhelming majority of people on LGBdroptheT are lesbians and bi women. Just because you pretend you're bigger victims doesnt mean you are, especially when gay people did all the work when it comes to building the community and every other letter, including the "L", who demanded to be first in the 500 letter acronym, appropriate the word "gay", aligned themselves with bisexual and "queer" women to colonize gay clubs and gay spaces and push their "im a woman card" to harass gay men. I've had bisexual women call me the f-slur on there when they messaged me and i told them im gay and to go away. these are the "allies" lesbians use to attack gay men with. so good luck with that.