Kind of late for that. Been there. Done that. Learned my lesson 🤣

Fun "club" to be in, isn't it? /s

Sorry for your friend. I hope she snaps out of it in time.

I doubt she will. She's in her 70s. Plenty of suicidal ideations in her history. This is not going to help. It's going to reinforce that whole thought pattern and focus her even more on the idea that she's a victim. She's currently choosing to be abusive toward me so we're not talking—she does that every few years, out of the blue. And never acknowledges why we stopped talking for years, or apologizes, when we start talking again. I'm kinda done with it at this point. I was more patient when I was younger. So she's probably got nobody around her who will try to talk sense into her. But she did that to herself. I don't want to be crapped on right now. :-/

Thanks for letting me vent a bit.