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[–]lovelyspearmintLesbeing a lesbian[S] 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It's still a 7 year gap with a 17 year old. If it was, say, 18 and 17, fine, I get it, but 7 years is a lot of time when it comes to brain and sexual development.

But I agree with your other theories, especially the one about the lack of options. Most lesbian couples I've known have had a 5+ year gap at the very least, but never anything too drastic like the real life examples I gave.