Ok first off.. you're not some ridiculous black person who can feign offence and im some white person who's supposed to tip toe around you lest i offend your sensibilities. This whole crack within the gay community happened because of lesbians. And twitter matters because yes, it's a gigantic shit show but the garbage that is twitter shows how things play out in real life. There are now "asexual" obnoxious straight girls lecturing, harassing and bullying lesbians within their own community. Gay and Lesbian children are losing the sense of entitlement to a community that was meant to be bequeathed to them and it turned into a shit show because older lesbians turned into imbeciles and thought bisexual women would be their partners in some womanhood scheme to overthrow the patriarchy. And what did the bisexual women do? Start lecturing, dehumanizing and harassing lesbians. These are generalizations because the patterns are....general. Rational discourse doesnt matter. It doesnt do or lead to anything. Not even husbands or wives have rational discourse. Not even marriages work like that. It's about loyalty, empathy, compassion and a shared vision of what your community and world looks like and most lesbian "discourse" or understanding of reality is that theyre somehow friends with heterosexual women. The same heterosexual women who sneer at them with hatred and disgust just like in the 90's where gay men had to force them to stop or sacrifice their friendships with them. You keep trying to ignore the fact that heterosexuals/bisexuals are animals. You only see it in straight men but somehow think women are exempt from this. If it's not you personally, the lesbian "community" certainly suffers from this flaw. You have a contempt for heterosexual men...as you should but you dont have the same energy for heterosexual women and that causes massive problems for our community.