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[–]censorshipment 41 insightful - 7 fun41 insightful - 6 fun42 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

I know these posts aren't meant to be relatable, but I used to want a realistic packer/dildo when I identified as a guy to convince straight women I was a man. Wasn't until my late 20s that I realized that was deceitful because I couldn't think beyond my own "need" to be seen as a straight man. And I had a girlfriend who loved my female body, yet I wanted a realistic fake dick so a straight woman could "validate" me.

It's hard to snap out of that narcissistic mindset of insecurity.

[–]NeedMoreCoffee~=[,,_,,]=^_^= 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I have a question but I understand if you do not wish to discuss this at all so feel free to ignore me.

How did you snap out of that mindset?