And let me tell you! This idealization towards gay men is not exclusive from straight women. Although not so predominant, it sometimes happens with bi women as well. You have no idea 😂 I have a bi female friend which has a tendency to fall in love with gay guys (HER words, not mine!!). I've met her this year through college and I have a hard time making male friends unless they're feminine and preferenciably gay. The femininity aspect because it makes me so much easier to connect with someone Idk why. And it's best for me if they're gay because I instantly get 100% comfortable around them. It's like that invisible path we know "I don't like you that way and neither do you!". But idgf about being their bff or something of the sort lmao. And I met a feminine gay guy and I noticed my female friend (who didn't know I was a lesbian yet) got very defensive when I talked to him and I couldn't understand why????? I was like, he's gay lady???? And I'm a lesbian although you don't know but you know he's gay so? 😂 It was later when she told me she usually crushes on gay guys and suddenly everything made sense LMAO. God, we gays and lesbians can't have peace can we? xD