Since you just moved out of your childhood home, it sounds like at least one thing that was holding you back has been eliminated. Have you had any better opportunities to continue your transition in the last several years? Do you expect better opportunities to appear any time soon? Because if not, now seems like the best time to keep moving things along. It's not just about living authentically or being true to yourself or whatever. It's also a healthcare need and not transitioning is, as such, a form of self-harm.

Definitely should not take any advice from this person. They are clearly not listening to what she is saying. Her illusions are breaking down right now. She should let them collapse already. And get away from these illusion enabling people.