God I hate this. It's just so, so homophobic. No-one goes around telling straight people they have a genital fetish, that's only something I've seen aimed at lesbian and gay communities.

Also it fits in nicely with DARVO (aka gaslighting). D = downplay the abuse [trans people can have anytype of genitalia, trans people have all sorts of bodies, cis people have sex with trans people all the time, no-one is forcing you to date anyone], A = attack the victim ["genital fetish", welcome to the 21st century, it's transphobic to say you wouldn't date trans people], RVO = reverse victim and offender [if you have preconceived ideas about trans bodies these are stereotypes and that's transphobic, ...leads trans people to dangerous and potentially violent situations, stop yelling your transphobia from the rooftops].

No you creepy and abusive arseholes, gaslighting people who don't want to sleep with you into having sex with you is coercive and manipulative behaviour; and frankly, abusive. This is vile and pathetic. It's shameful that this has become a hallmark of your community.