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[–]powpowpowpow 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

My friend prefers masc gay men and he has heard quite a lot of trash as well, including being accused of internalized homophobia by a couole of woke friends we had... its just tiring, idk why ppl are so obsessed nowadays to micromanage others

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

idk why ppl are so obsessed nowadays to micromanage others

Some people are just miserable people. They think they’d feel less miserable if other people around them are miserable. A gay man being effeminate simply because that’s just how he is is not going to be bothered by a gay man being masculine. But a gay man who is feminine just because he thinks that’s how gay men should behave will be offended by a masculine gay man, or even a different kind of effeminate gay man, because if he was inclined to acknowledge that those men are genuinely gay, then he’d have to develop a personality. Which takes effort. I bet those “bitchy” gay men hate feminine gay men who are elegant, graceful and sweet, more than they hate masculine gay men.

[–]powpowpowpow 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Good point