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[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 27 insightful - 3 fun27 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

It's always so strange to hear people say "I love lesbians" or "I love gay men". I'm referring to these fetishistic "trans gay people". This is a clear fixation and fetish for homosexuals and homosexuality. As a lesbian, I've NEVER felt like "I love lesbians (like ew it sounds gross)" or "I feel attracted to lesbians". Actually, for me, I usually have the opposite problem and keep being attracted to straight women. I mean, I love WOMEN, so her sexual orientation doesn't have a role in my attraction. But for these fetishistic people? Being a homosexual and the being the opposite sex and being gay and having a "gay lifestyle" dating GAY guys/LESBIANS IS the ultimate fantasy. It's so freaking weird.

[–]nautilistic 22 insightful - 1 fun22 insightful - 0 fun23 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You are right. It makes no sense at all.

Sorry, I mostly lurk here, I'm a straight male, but I'm just happy to see LGB without the T, so I can support diverse sexuality while being allowed to criticize the gender insanity.

I'm attracted to women, whether they are homosexual or heterosexual doesn't really come into play until things develop further. If it's a lesbian woman, I won't think "Oh damn, I'm attracted to lesbians". Just move on.

But these men... They cannot interact with women in the first place. They don't seem to understand that both hetero- and homosexual women are women. It's so obviously a fetishization.

[–]fuck_reddit 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. It fits in with the greater reason why they never want to define what a "gay man" or "lesbian" is. Because it becomes abundantly clear to gay men and lesbians that they don't know what it's like to be a man/woman, let alone a homosexual man/woman... And the few times they do define what being "gay" is, they flat out say they think it's about fashion, personality, culture, etc. Anything that is a stereotype that isn't sex...

[–]reluctant_commenter 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As a lesbian, I've NEVER felt like "I love lesbians (like ew it sounds gross)" or "I feel attracted to lesbians". Actually, for me, I usually have the opposite problem and keep being attracted to straight women. I mean, I love WOMEN, so her sexual orientation doesn't have a role in my attraction.

Exactly! Same here haha. I've heard of fetishistic "trans gay people" finding out that the person they think they're attracted to isn't gay, though, and then have no interest. If I could magically stop crushing on a straight woman I liked once I found out she was straight, that would be super cool...