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[–]lulululululu 23 insightful - 1 fun23 insightful - 0 fun24 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I completely understand. My womanhood is extremely important to me, so it was depressing to be in LGBT spaces (Ive never had a specifically lesbian space irl... sad) and hear 24/7 about how evil and violent “cis” women were. We’re not the ones killing trans people, it’s straight men doing that, but they never acknowledge that. People really just hated women, and use queer theory to make hating women woke.

It’s so sad for me to have to say this, but I’m now mainly only friends with straight women and I’m just a lot happier than when I was friends with self-hating “queer” women who reject womanhood. I do miss having a community though, so I’m grateful for these online spaces such as these.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡[S] 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Wow, that sucks. Thanks for sharing your personal experience. But I feel ya - nowadays, I prefer to be around straight people, though I miss having a community like you :(