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People lie.

Sure, but she has sex with men, brags about it and identifies as bisexual so I don't see why we shouldn't we take her actions and words for what they are. Women can be bi and bisexuals outnumber lesbians, so I think the simplest explanation is that she is bisexual as she says.

"I'm a trans man who is muscular and hairy and into dicks and vaginas, definitely not a lesbian woman"

I don't see why Buck would be more ashamed by the idea of being a lesbian woman than a bisexual woman in your example. And bisexual people can experience internalized homophobia about their homosexual attractions too. If Buck is exclusively attracted to women she could identfy as a straight trans man who is "gay for pay" instead of bragging about getting dick like it would be something to envy.

What about all the straight women who do lesbian porn?

If a woman does lesbian porn and says she is bisexual, then I wouldn't immediately assume that she's straight as bisexual women can do porn. Some straight women might do lesbian porn and lie about being bi to get more money, but I don't think doing lesbian porn and identifying as bi is in itself evidence of being straight so I would take for their words for being bisexual unless there was something indicating otherwise.