My gay transman identity is hijacked by cis women who treat my relationship like their porn, their toy, their property

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[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

Who the fuck are you? A fujoshi? A FTM? I mean, if you come in here out of nowhere and say "SO YOU'RE SAYING I HARASS REAL GUYS AND ASK SEXUALLY INVASIVE QUESTIONS" unprompted, I'm probably going to guess yes. I mean, why else would you randomly pop up and beg for validation like that?

Christ you people are weird. And I'm a homosexual with a fuck ton of mental problems and an unhealthy obsession. You know it's bad when I call others such

[–]QueenBread 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Clam down, buddy, calm down. This thread made the statement "girls who like yaoi harass real guys and ask sexually invasive questions". I'm a girl who likes yaoi. So I'm just asking if that means I do all that weird stuff.

Because, funny that, I don't think I ever did something so socially awkward and crazy.

But hey, tell me. You seem to know girls who like yaoi better than ourselves.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

I mean, maybe you DON'T go around asking random guys if they're "top or bottom" or whether they're into spins wheel of weird yaoi fetishes mpreg half-wolf alternate universe, but, if you like yaoi then there's a high chance you consume & enjoy content that glorifies rape and sexual abuse, particularly of feminine males.

And as a feminine guy who's often been the target of abuse from men, sorry not sorry, but people who fetishize and enjoy fictional content that portrays that make me wary. Even the fact that you had to come in here and jump on my comment like "omg I do X are you saying I'm bad" is a red flag to me.

I just think it's funny as fuck (in a sad way) that if you were a guy who came on this sub like "Yeah I like lesbian porn, does that make me misogynist and creepy?" the lesbians on this sub would verbally tear you apart (especially with the amount of batshit crazy, quick-to-anger radfems there are here) but the moment I'm like "oh I don't trust women who fetishize gay relationships" I'm the problem and the one who's "tRyInG To KnOw WoMeN BeTtEr ThAn ThEy KnOw ThEmSelVeS."

Again, going so far to defend that you like this content tells me enough. Like, you wouldn't be here trying to convince me so hard if you truly didn't know it was problematic, lmfao. You're probably just hoping for that one gay guy to tell you "why yes, I do indeed enjoy porn comics of underage anime boys being anally raped as much as you do" so you can feel validated and claim that actual homosexual guys are on your side

[–]QueenBread 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Let me understand this. You're telling me I'm not supposed to enjoy my BDSM rape fetish yaoi manga, because you say so?

Also, allow me to say that straight men have every right to enjoy lesbian porn if that's their fancy. There's nothing wrong with it. It gets wrong only when they start calling themselves lesbians and forget the difference between reality and fiction and try to impose their fetish on real lesbians. But, just like with women who like yaoi, I'd wager than most men who like lesbian porn know it's just a fetish and they shouldn't impose it to real lesbians. Most women who like yaoi aren't trying to impose yaoi to real gays.

[–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (5 children)

You're not supposed to enjoy it because it's fucked up and if you get off on rape of others than you're fucked in the head. You can do what you want. I can't stop you. But I don't have to like nor respect you. If you enjoy depictions of feminine men being raped, then as a feminine guy, I sincerely hate that you glamorize something that I struggle with in the real world and I don't want to be near you.

[–]QueenBread 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

Dude, you're a feminine guy and you think YOU "struggle" with perverts, potential rapists, fetishists, etcetera?

Do I have a surprise for you. I'm an actual woman, and not even the most feminine guy can tell a WOMAN that they struggle with rapists and perverts, because hello, this is daily life for any woman in the world.

Now, I guess you have some personal issues of your own, perhaps some bad experience that signed you. It's ok and you have all the right of the world to feel how you feel. Just try not to hate an entire category of people because of their kinks. Most people aren't crazy.