Gender identity is such a domineering force that trans people have no choice but to transition or commit suicide , but at the same time changing gender every week is totally valid, a random stranger on the internet can tell you if you "sound trans," and it's those silly cis people who are taking gender far too seriously with their "treatment guidelines" and "but two weeks ago you were complaining that plastic surgery and passing are transphobic, why do you want Peruvian tooth lifts now?"