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[–]marmorsymphata 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

As someone who is constantly, unwantedly overloaded by sexualization of women every fucking day of my life, just by living in the 21st century: Where and how, exactly, do these people suppose straight women and gay men have been socially conditioned to be cock obsessed?

Even this involves the expression of sex, and not genitals themselves. It takes a pretty direct, carnal brainwashing to create the kind of artificial fetishistic obsession they're talking about. Where is it in our culture that straight up cock is enforced anyway? I've certainly never seen a naked cock on television, or even in film. Considering the dominance of straight men in our media, male genitalia is generally talked about as something disgusting or funny, sometimes violent, but almost never something intimately sexual. Big/small dick talk is about men one-upping or shaming each other, and not really about sexual pleasure.

And beyond the pop culture: Do these people think our parents are lecturing us about how good cock is? Health class, maybe? If it doesn't start with our families, where does this kind of socio-cultural enforcement come from? Certainly not from other teens that have had sex already talking with us, because since they have orientations by which to choose partners this supposes they have already been contaminated with the genitalfetishistic germ.

So if it's not from the media, and not from the family, and not from our peers, and not from our schools, where does it come from?

Perhaps AGPs think everyone watches porn all day every day from childhood? Perhaps that is what they do?