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[–]candiedDagon 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

“Persistentlyfem” on tumblr has a blog about this dynamic. It does seemed linked to gender identity and trauma. To me it seems like two people absorbing themselves into roles so they can be codependent together. Their identity is the relationship. Like how a hetero woman might build her identity around being the perfect wife based on whatever cultural ideals are floating around.

[–]BiHorror[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

okay, thanks. I'll check that out!