Hello!
I really need to vent and this is the only place I can do so and where people probably understand where I'm coming from.
I've only realised about this TQ+ madness THIS year, a couple of months ago. My country isn't nowhere as bad as UK or USA in this regard. What peaked me was r/actuallesbians. I was pretty new on Reddit and decided to join the biggest lesbian sub (supposedly).
Anyway, once I realised something was wrong, and the deeper I researched and the deeper I though about it, the more I was getting aware of how big and scary this gender ideology actually is. LGBDroptheT was definitely something which made my day and made me feel like there are, after all, lots of LGB people feeling similarly to me.
However, even though in my country things aren't this bad, I can definitely see the ~queer mindset~ among several lgb(tq) people here. A considerable amount. On the other hand, there are still lots of people, including LGB people, who are TOTALLY unaware of what's happening.
So, in short, I currently feel a very strong aversion to this LGB(TQ+) "community" I never asked to belong. I went from realising my sexual orientation and wanting to meet other LGB people to connect with, to get disappointed at worst and indifferent at best with the LGB people I eventually met and now I end up NOT tolerating at all this community. In fact, I feel like the more far away I am from lgb(tq+) people, the better. I literally feel much safer around straight people nowadays than with lgb(tq+) people (and it's crazy!). The ones I'm scared the most are the bisexual ones. Once I know someone is bisexual, I immediately feel wary and want to distance myself. I say this because it's practically always a bisexual person buying into this ~gender ideology non sense~. At least when it's a gay man or a lesbian, I KNOW they will understand me, I KNOW they won't want opposite sex organs, I don't feel so scared.
I currently HATE the community and I can't pretend it's everything fine. If someone listened to me talking about the community, they would probably think I was some "homophobic prick" LOL. But as a matter of fact I DO think many lgb(tq+) people are very attention seekers and don't want to simply be like anyone else - they want to show the world how "gay" they are in every single aspect of their lives. I hate it. Like seriously, I genuinely cannot stand those people. And it feels like that if I meet a lgb(tq+) person, there's a high chance of meeting someone like that.
I guess I just needed to vent, because I'm just so shocked on how unsafe and scared of the community I currently feel. And guess what? There's practically nothing I can do... I guess I just needed to vent.
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