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[–]julesburm1891 19 insightful - 3 fun19 insightful - 2 fun20 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

One of my guy friends is bi. A couple of years ago he went on a few dates with a transwoman who’d been on hormones and had breast surgery. He was all good with the situation because, in his mind, he like both. (He said his date was perfectly fine too.) Then, it came time for the clothes to come off. As soon as he saw dick and boobs together, he said his dick went completely soft and he couldn’t do anything to get hard again. It was evidently mortifying for him and the transwoman was pretty embarrassed as well.

A person may like two things just fine on their own, but never ever be about their combination.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I can definitely understand the logic he used. It makes perfect sense as simple bi-rithmetic. But with physical attraction, Something Good + Something Good doesn't necessarily compound and = Something Better. Instead, I feel it's more like chemistry, where 2 very characteristic(but very different) features in proximity can alter each other in completely unpredictable ways or even cancel out one another's poignancy and strength when mixed(like acids and bases), leaving one with nothing in the end..