Selfless bi woman advises lesbians to be nice to MTFs who surprise them with pulling out a dick before sex, because ''frustration is guaranteed'' when you have sex with men, lol

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[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (10 children)

And it would be nice if they'd fuck off with that term misappropriation, because seeing bisexual women get laughed about in this sub as if we're the same people who misuse a term elsewhere sucks.

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[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (9 children)

No way, lesbianism is a fetish in society. Girls will keep bragging about being bisexual, even if they're not really much into girls.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (8 children)

Not sure you caught my meaning. I agree with you and am lamenting the way that crummy behavior leads to all bisexual women being laughed at in this manner as if we all do this or are this.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

Yeah, I know that. But there are way too many girls like that, and this create a certain aversion for female bisexuality

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (6 children)

Right, and I am asking that we not be spoken about as a joke, which is how it feels to read such comments. As far as I have seen the bisexual women who are here are nothing like the ones being derided. So it'd help if a clear distinction was made when y'all want to complain about bisexual women as if we are a monolithic entity; we aren't, any more than women should take the blame for TRAs who also happen to be predators while calling themselves women. There is a huge difference between the people who display the problem you are describing, and the people who are here.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 10 insightful - 4 fun10 insightful - 3 fun11 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

Nobody says you're all the same lol

[–]Lessom 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I get what she is saying though. I’ve noticed some dismissive comments towards bisexuals in general on this sub.

I don’t think things would be received well if it was the other way round.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Nobody says you're all the same lol

Ahem, that's exactly what you implied. Now swap out your original statement and this response to my request for courtesy and empathy with "nobody is saying lesbians have to like dick," when we all can see that some are saying this exact thing. So: Nobody is saying what people keep saying? Right. I wouldn't be calling it out right now if it was anomalous. It is becoming a problem on this sub and it's very far past being uncool. It needs to stop.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I've always defended bisexuals , actually. And never understood the general aversion from lesbians. I just said that now can understand it because of how many bi girls act, in non really taking relations with women seriously, or calling themselves lesbians or being supporting of the movement who wants to include dick in lesbian life. This isn't same as saying all bi girls are like that. And surely the ones here aren't like that.