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[–]HollywoodLESBIAN 43 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 3 fun44 insightful - 4 fun -  (4 children)

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"And like, even if she has a penis and you hate that, she’s also got a mouth and hands and maybe toys, so maybe don’t dismiss it right away"

"What is transphobic is if you consider the hypothetical scenario: you're with someone, physically intimate with her, and believe her to be cis, then a couple months/years into the relationship, she informs you she was amab, and you would have never known or guessed otherwise. If at that point, that one iota of information is a deal breaker, that's transphobia (or transmisia, I suppose, if you want to get into the semantics of hate vs fear)"

"Also though, most people claiming they have some "genital preference" are probably just experiencing internalized homophobia/transphobia. Unless you need to take a good long look at someone's genitals before feeling attracted to them, my guess is that your preference is actually about other things."

COME ON!! No, I will never be interested in or sexual with someone with a penis or who has ever had a penis. No, it's not "internalized transphobia". And if I'm with you and I think you're a woman but you're not, congrats! You successfully tricked me. This entitlement is fucking ridiculous. Why try to convert the people who don't want you in the first place when you can focus on the people who do? Oh right. They won't stop until every lesbian is sucking their dicks.

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 24 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

then a couple [...] years into the relationship, she informs you she was amab

That would require insane amounts of surgery.

Anyways, problem is not with those who spent thousands dollars to pass and on all SRS surgeries, but problem is with ones who have dicks and look like men.

And what about transmen? They will never have functional or even able to erect penises. It is impossible to "not notice that" in years of relationship and having sex.

[–]Seahorse 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (2 children)

There's a transman on reddit that claims to have never told the wife and said it was a medical condition.

Fuck awwfff that's fiction 🤣

[–]Gearbeta 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There was a really bizarre case in the UK regarding a lesbian pretending to be a man doing this, but it involved the victim wearing a blindfold every time they had sex and the victim herself even admitted that she was "a naive and gullible person". Anyway, the lesbian went to prison for this and it was just weird all around. Sso I guess it's possible if the wife is just kinda dumb maybe?? Here's the case if you wanna look: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/sep/09/woman-allegedly-tricked-into-sex-with-friend-pretending-to-be-man-lesbian-court-told

[–]Seahorse 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I remember that case. Early on they tried to say it was a man lol and you could see the wide arse hips in the pictures of the person in court 🤣

I feel sorry for those women tricked.