Women's Issues"You wouldn't even know the difference!" (More unscientific nonsense aimed at lesbians in order to coerce them into sleeping with trans women)

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[–]HollywoodLESBIAN 43 insightful - 4 fun43 insightful - 3 fun44 insightful - 4 fun -  (20 children)

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"And like, even if she has a penis and you hate that, she’s also got a mouth and hands and maybe toys, so maybe don’t dismiss it right away"

"What is transphobic is if you consider the hypothetical scenario: you're with someone, physically intimate with her, and believe her to be cis, then a couple months/years into the relationship, she informs you she was amab, and you would have never known or guessed otherwise. If at that point, that one iota of information is a deal breaker, that's transphobia (or transmisia, I suppose, if you want to get into the semantics of hate vs fear)"

"Also though, most people claiming they have some "genital preference" are probably just experiencing internalized homophobia/transphobia. Unless you need to take a good long look at someone's genitals before feeling attracted to them, my guess is that your preference is actually about other things."

COME ON!! No, I will never be interested in or sexual with someone with a penis or who has ever had a penis. No, it's not "internalized transphobia". And if I'm with you and I think you're a woman but you're not, congrats! You successfully tricked me. This entitlement is fucking ridiculous. Why try to convert the people who don't want you in the first place when you can focus on the people who do? Oh right. They won't stop until every lesbian is sucking their dicks.

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 53 insightful - 1 fun53 insightful - 0 fun54 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

These people are not getting the point. They keep thinking if they can figure out a way to label a behavior as "Transphobia" they automatically win the argument and are owed sex now. They don't understand that IT DOESN'T MATTER IF IT'S TRANSPHOBIA no one is obligated to fuck you. Even if they're racist rapist monsters who kill kittens, they still don't have to fuck you. Calling it transphobia doesn't change anything.

[–]Seahorse 19 insightful - 4 fun19 insightful - 3 fun20 insightful - 4 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah lol.

I don't know what they expect to happen.

There's been several studies years apart about people who will date trans and it's consistently small amount.

They should date each other and willing pansexuals and move on.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Exactly. We should just stop trying to fight the "transphobic" label. "That's transphobic!". Ok, you can think whatever you want to think. Still not gonna change my mind.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 44 insightful - 1 fun44 insightful - 0 fun45 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

"And like, even if she has a penis and you hate that, she’s also got a mouth and hands and maybe toys, so maybe don’t dismiss it right away"

Did it ever occur to these people that maybe lesbians don't just want the people we sleep with to not have dicks, but that we maybe also want to touch/lick/fuck a pussy during sex?

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 31 insightful - 12 fun31 insightful - 11 fun32 insightful - 12 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah. If I cannot perform oral sex on a pussy, fuck a pussy with my pussy, finger penetrate a pussy, I'll just prefer the awesome vibrator I bought on amazon lol

[–]blackrainbow 21 insightful - 1 fun21 insightful - 0 fun22 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

It says a lot about their standards

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Silly, what YOU want is clearly not as important as what THEY want! Get with the program! /s

[–]a_blue_bird 28 insightful - 2 fun28 insightful - 1 fun29 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

All their arguments fall into two categories:
(1) applicable to all humans universally (if you're gay, don't dismiss the opposite sex, because there are just sooo many things you can do in bed! Also, they have hands and mouth, duh. If you're straight don't dismiss the same sex...)
(2) if something is important to you, but you would have never found out/guessed/or otherwise that I lied to you about it without me telling you, then it is not deception

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 24 insightful - 5 fun24 insightful - 4 fun25 insightful - 5 fun -  (8 children)

then a couple [...] years into the relationship, she informs you she was amab

That would require insane amounts of surgery.

Anyways, problem is not with those who spent thousands dollars to pass and on all SRS surgeries, but problem is with ones who have dicks and look like men.

And what about transmen? They will never have functional or even able to erect penises. It is impossible to "not notice that" in years of relationship and having sex.

[–]Seahorse 20 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 3 fun21 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

There's a transman on reddit that claims to have never told the wife and said it was a medical condition.

Fuck awwfff that's fiction 🤣

[–]MezozoicGayoldschool gay 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I can believe in such situation happening (very rarely), but imagine lying whole life to your beloved and abusing their kindness?

[–]Seahorse 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

They don't think there's anything wrong with it.

That's how you know this condition is quite narcissistic because large majority of them think deceiving people and lying about who they are is fine.

[–]Gearbeta 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

There was a really bizarre case in the UK regarding a lesbian pretending to be a man doing this, but it involved the victim wearing a blindfold every time they had sex and the victim herself even admitted that she was "a naive and gullible person". Anyway, the lesbian went to prison for this and it was just weird all around. Sso I guess it's possible if the wife is just kinda dumb maybe?? Here's the case if you wanna look: https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2015/sep/09/woman-allegedly-tricked-into-sex-with-friend-pretending-to-be-man-lesbian-court-told

[–]Seahorse 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah I remember that case. Early on they tried to say it was a man lol and you could see the wide arse hips in the pictures of the person in court 🤣

I feel sorry for those women tricked.

[–]RedEyedWarriorGay | Male | 🇮🇪 Irish 🇮🇪 | Antineoliberal | Cocks are Compulsory 9 insightful - 2 fun9 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Like a lot of things on Reddit, faaaaaake.

[–]crodish 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Wasn't this also the case of NikkiTutorials? She only came out to her partner when she was being blackmailed about it and by then they were already engaged. I feel bad for the dude since he'd be subject to internet pressure and cries of tRANsPhoBiA if he changed his mind after the fact.

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

If at that point, that one iota of information is a deal breaker, that's transphobia

Fine. Call me transphobic then, idgaf. Still don't want you bro.

[–]CleverNickName 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Also though, most people claiming they have some "genital preference" are probably just experiencing internalized homophobia/transphobia. Unless you need to take a good long look at someone's genitals before feeling attracted to them, my guess is that your preference is actually about other things."

Self Aware Wolf? Sort of? The person who said it thinks it means something completely different, but uh yes... attraction to a sex is about everything that's attractive in that sex. The genital obsession is a trans- and gender-ideologue invention, because inverting penises and vaginas is the only way they think they can "prove" they're the sex they're not.

To them, lesbians hate dresses because they won't date men in dresses.

[–]PenseePansyBio-Sex or Bust 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

"And like, even if she has a penis and you hate that, she’s also got a mouth and hands and maybe toys, so maybe don’t dismiss it right away"

Oh yeah, wouldn't wanna "dismiss it right away" just because you're SEXUALLY-REPULSED BY THEM! Let's not be hasty here or anything!

Cuz there's always the prospect of having this devastatingly-UNattractive person's mouth & hands on ya! Who WOULDN'T want that from someone whom they find a total turn-off? I ASK you!

Not to mention TOYS wielded by such an avatar of un-unsexiness! In a context that's about as far from "hawt" for you as it can get! So the result is like your WORST PELVIC EXAM EVER!

But hey, it's 2020 and the battle for gay rights is won... so, lesbians: just lie back and think of England Wokestan!