LesbianMan on r/acutallesbians wants to know if he's a lesbian, apparently he is

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[–]bastetkat 65 insightful - 15 fun65 insightful - 14 fun66 insightful - 15 fun -  (0 children)

Wait until he realizes the people welcoming him are not lesbians, but other men with the same fetish.

And ofc, someone with a “transbian” flair said he’s addicted to calling himself a “lesbian”, when so many lesbians are uncomfortable with the label due to how sexualized it is.

[–][deleted] 60 insightful - 2 fun60 insightful - 1 fun61 insightful - 2 fun -  (3 children)

Seriously fuck any woman who validates this kind of crap. What a joke.

[–]Three_oneFourWanted for thought crimes in countless ideologies 38 insightful - 11 fun38 insightful - 10 fun39 insightful - 11 fun -  (2 children)

Are there any women on that subreddit anymore?

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 45 insightful - 10 fun45 insightful - 9 fun46 insightful - 10 fun -  (0 children)

There is the occasional woman whose husband came out as mtf and so that makes her totally a lesbian now 🙄

[–]NiceDickBro 31 insightful - 2 fun31 insightful - 1 fun32 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

I honestly think all that’s left there are fetish LARPers and straight women virtue signalling because what they’re saying won’t impact them.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 45 insightful - 21 fun45 insightful - 20 fun46 insightful - 21 fun -  (0 children)

I am a man, but I love women

but

Lol. He is saying that loving women is something unusual for a man. I don't know, maybe he is straight, or something?

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 41 insightful - 13 fun41 insightful - 12 fun42 insightful - 13 fun -  (2 children)

Every single human being in that thread is a dude.

[–]macaron 24 insightful - 13 fun24 insightful - 12 fun25 insightful - 13 fun -  (1 child)

They are 'validating' each other, lmao.

[–]Seahorse 19 insightful - 14 fun19 insightful - 13 fun20 insightful - 14 fun -  (0 children)

":) Really?" wank wank wank wank

[–]Seahorse 38 insightful - 6 fun38 insightful - 5 fun39 insightful - 6 fun -  (4 children)

10 years ago this person would have been flagged as a creep (you know, what they actually are) instead of welcomed

I know I'm evil for this but I hope trans women on there cat fish each other.

"I'm in the same position. Came out to my gf 2 weeks ago, about being trans. Turns out we both gay as well. It's a fucking wonderful rainbow fest.

I also worry about calling myself a lesbian, or even a woman for that matter, but that's just 32 years of bullshit masculinity talking.

I feel like a woman, I am a woman, and I like women.

I'm gay af"

Excuse me wtf,🤣

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 31 insightful - 7 fun31 insightful - 6 fun32 insightful - 7 fun -  (3 children)

Anyone else hate people saying they're "gay af"? You're either 13 or straight af. Makes me roll my eyes every time.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 9 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 0 fun10 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yes, I hate it 😶

[–]just_lesbian_things 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

In OP's case, he can be both

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 37 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 0 fun38 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Look how enthusiastic are the answers. The transbians know he is one of them - another fetishistic male with AGP

[–]marmorsymphata 30 insightful - 14 fun30 insightful - 13 fun31 insightful - 14 fun -  (13 children)

At this point, I’m almost addicted to calling myself a lesbian

Yikes. And of course his name is "Catgirl princess"

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 29 insightful - 3 fun29 insightful - 2 fun30 insightful - 3 fun -  (12 children)

Being an actual lesbian I have literally never called myself a lesbian in real life, let alone being addicted to it. It's almost like these AGP males face none of the repercussions real lesbians have when they're out and so constantly say it as part of a disgusting fetish 🤔

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (11 children)

What do lesbians call themselves today? ‘Lesbian’ Was coopted. Then ‘true’ and then ‘actual’ lesbian was colonized.

I used to assume that internet dating was probably safest for lesbians but I would guess it’s the sketchiest now with all the creeps.

This is crazy and I so feel for you all.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

It was the safest since there was no man. Now is different.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Now with all this word twisting, there no way to find, unless asking questions like "borned as female natal women lover?" But even then, some men are saying their body is female, because they have Self-ID documents stating them as female, so their penises are natal female biology by their logic. LOL.

So there no real way nowadays in UK or USA to say you are a woman, or that you love women.

[–]RedditHatesLesbiansHomosexual Not Queer 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

I still call myself a lesbian, and if I'm ever forced to clarify or presented with a transbian to date I'll go, "I'm a homosexual female" since that hasn't been appropriated. Yet.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I wish you all the best!!

I’m so sorry for what is happening in your community.

I’m so glad I’m not young now. I'm probably a touch bi. I really REALLY hope I would not have been one of those mostly straight girls appropriating the word lesbian and welcoming transbians on ‘behalf of lesbians’. Such total BS

It’s like how I am a small percentage ‘sub saharan African’. If I identified as black and welcomed in racists as long as they had a fetish for Black women. It would make the space unsafe for actual Black women at no risk to myself.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I am calling myself lesbian as well, as I am not giving up on something that belongs to me.

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 12 insightful - 2 fun12 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeeep. I feel like I have no community, we have no bars, no lesbian only anything and the lgbtqwtf events are full of blue haired queer ~progressive ~ people

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 8 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 0 fun9 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Internet hugs.

I’m not lesbian but I know how much I have always loved the vibe of a female only space. I’ve been in lesbian spaces and they were beautiful. I never got hit on because women just nicely get a feel for you and don’t push things. (Or maybe I wasn’t that cute, lol)

I cannot imagine how awful it would be to have some tacky dude pushing his way into that space, demanding extra reassurance and attention, and creating divisiveness. Lesbians have to identify as ‘progressive ladydique accepters’ or be labeled ‘hateful exclusionary trfs’

Even as (mostly) straight women, my friend and I used to love to go to gay male bars to be left alone by men. (I really hope we weren’t invading their spaces in retrospect).

I wish you the best

[–]oofreesouloo⚡super lesbian⚡ 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Aww thanks for the support 💖💖

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 6 insightful - 3 fun6 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 3 fun -  (1 child)

I call myself a female homosexual. Of course, "homosexual" is now an offensive word.

[–]wafflegaffWoman. SuperBi. 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

To those who don't qualify...

[–]Griffgay dude 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

All of my lesbian friends are "nonbinary women" now who still seem to call themselves lesbians and women 99% of the time.

[–]divingrightintowork 28 insightful - 5 fun28 insightful - 4 fun29 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

Omfg

"I'm in the same position. Came out to my gf 2 weeks ago, about being trans. Turns out we both gay as well. It's a fucking wonderful rainbow fest"

He's 32 yrs old

[–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 22 insightful - 18 fun22 insightful - 17 fun23 insightful - 18 fun -  (3 children)

You're a lesbian, and you're a lesbian, and you're a lesbian, and everybody is a lesbian!!!! Wheee!!!!

[–]deliciousdogfoodmy name isnt a puppyplay reference i swear 22 insightful - 16 fun22 insightful - 15 fun23 insightful - 16 fun -  (1 child)

So, which lesbian wished on a monkeys paw for a wider dating pool?

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You made me snort-laugh and now my dog is looking at me in that judgmental/pitying way she has.

Edit:I just noticed your name lol

[–]biggreensunglasses 13 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

10 years ago me would have been super excited by that prospect. The 2020 version of events is however exactly as expected for this shitshow of a year.

[–]FrostyNugsI'm allergic to nuts 26 insightful - 8 fun26 insightful - 7 fun27 insightful - 8 fun -  (0 children)

For fucks sake, these guys already know that r/actualAGPs will welcome them with open arms. They just can't resist milking any opportunity to get that sweet, sweet nectar of validation.

[–]saged 28 insightful - 3 fun28 insightful - 2 fun29 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

This person is a 13 year old who said that he was helped by r/feemagers to come to the conclusion that he is trans 2 months agp. So read those comments and realize that a group of men who ALSO think they are women and apart of the lesbian community, are hugboxxing a 13 year old boy, who looks like a 13 year old boy into thinking he's now 100% a woman and will be accepted as such and anyone who does not are evil terfs, who don't see he's a women. This is sick.

[–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

This gen is f***ed.

[–]blackrainbow 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

And he will be injecting hormones soon

[–]denverkrisMy pronouns are Vodka?/Yes!/please 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Hopefully he'll do that before he procreates.

[–]NiceDickBro 14 insightful - 12 fun14 insightful - 11 fun15 insightful - 12 fun -  (7 children)

Mmmm lesbians with a cock and balls. My favourite!

[–]biggreensunglasses 16 insightful - 8 fun16 insightful - 7 fun17 insightful - 8 fun -  (1 child)

🤢

[–]NiceDickBro 6 insightful - 7 fun6 insightful - 6 fun7 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

Haha sorry friend, hope you kept your lunch down

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 14 insightful - 5 fun14 insightful - 4 fun15 insightful - 5 fun -  (4 children)

Fuck this shit.

[–]NiceDickBro 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Couldn’t agree more friend. 😢

Stay strong. I think it’s gonna get worse before it gets better.

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Humanity has a talent for always getting worst. And it's long time tradition to attack homosexuality. Gender ideology is just old story.

[–]VioletRemiCat, homosexual one 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Not to getting worse, it has ways to stay the same while technologies or society improves. So monkeys with spears and people with phones are doing the same, just in different way!

[–]florasisHOMOSEXUAL FEMALE/Pussy is my God and I'm monotheist 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

You always make smart point :)

[–]Criticallacitirc 17 insightful - 5 fun17 insightful - 4 fun18 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

"I'm in the same position. Came out to my gf 2 weeks ago, about being trans. Turns out we both gay as well. It's a fucking wonderful rainbow fest."

A MAN & A WOMAN DATING IS NOT GAY AHHHHBBBBMHHHHVBJU

[–]GConly 16 insightful - 4 fun16 insightful - 3 fun17 insightful - 4 fun -  (1 child)

Looking at the post history of the 'lesbian' supporters... Yeah mostly trans larpers. I spotted two probable females.

The guys:

Lila Alice (lesbian transwoman)

Clatonia transbian

Queen of daisies (trans)

Olivia Magus (trans)

Teddy Lebowski (trans)

Memory Meister (trans)

Ariadnav (trans)

Drinker of water (trans)

Catgirlprincess (transbian)

Yeah stopped checking at that point. Two up until that last one were female.

More men than women on that sub...

[–]Rosefield 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No wonder why they think lesbians want to date them. This sub is 95% men and 5% handmaidens telling each other this lie over and over again. No one is allowed to say the truth and then they are whining about exclusion irl.

[–]3MistersAndAMissy 16 insightful - 2 fun16 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

The few ‘welcomers’ I looked up were mtf. Go figure

[–]a_blue_bird 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Those people are completely brainwashed.

[–]aldoushuxleyghost 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

That whole thread... straight man being validated by straight men in a formerly lesbian space.

2020 just doesn't stop does it.

[–]spermaide 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I puked reading the comments on there. Wtf. I remember on that sub a guy saying that he felt like he’s in a hetero relationship (he has a gf) and it felt so wrong so he came out as a lesbian. I was confused. That’s how I discovered there are lots of crazy things going on in the lgbt community.

[–]lazy-summer-godSuper Gay 9 insightful - 7 fun9 insightful - 6 fun10 insightful - 7 fun -  (0 children)

WELCOME, WORLD! I AM A BLACK MAN TODAY!

[–]xAcidRainx 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Lesbian means homosexual female, this dude is none of those things.

[–]watermelonsappho 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

actuallesbians is essentially a lesbian fandom/LARP sub for creepy men lol

[–]PriestTheyCalledHimBisexual 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

😒😂😹 this reminds me of a man I met in the early 1990s who claimed he is 'queer and a male lesbian' because he would cheat on his wife with prostitutes all who had pimps or who had been trafficked...

[–]volgin 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

so basically they remove all of the sane responses so it's just other mentally ill men uwu-validating this shit?