Cure is wrong term for something that isn't a disease. It's like wanting to cure having blue eyes. And seriously I doubt all people are homophobic. They don't understand you, the same way as you don't understand them and this put a wall between you and most of the world, especially because, as you said, there is too much sex obsession in our culture, I wish it was more discrete like in the past, but that isn't the same as saying that everybody think you're a perv. And to be fair, I fail to relate to good part of lesbian community too. Moral of the story, being a lesbian is cool, actually, because staying with women is great and I seriously pity straight women sometimes. Being a little minority can suck, you feel ignored and not understood, but you just have to find a few people you can relate, you don't need most of the world.