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[–]BEB 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

That's awful and I'm sorry you were subjected to that kind of cruelty and stupidity.

As in any movement, there are lunatics. But I think that the mods on s/gendercritical, and on r/gendercritical try/tried hard to keep it civil and in four or so years of lurking on GC spaces, I have seen almost nothing of those kind of comments, so if you feel like it, please come back.

The Equality Act, currently in the US Senate after having passed the House, would change the legal definition of "sex" to include "gender identity." It would then be impossible to define "homosexual" and "sexual orientation," so women AND gays are going to be screwed.

The Equality Act has full support of every Democrat in the House and Senate and Joe Biden said it's his number one legislative priority. As such, we need all hands on deck to stop the passage of the Equality Act, so please think about rejoining GC spaces and my apologies again.

[–]reluctant_commenter 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

Thanks for considering my point of view.

As in any movement, there are lunatics.

That's true. But I am still uncertain as to whether these are really fringe points of view in GC (and by that I mean the community, not necessarily the beliefs).

Yeah, the "Equality Act" is messed up. I get it, sometimes you have to suck it up and work towards something bigger. But I did not say I wrote off GC entirely-- I'm saying, that's why I have stayed away from it so far and that is one way that GC is affecting LGB, which is what OP asked about. What I described is a pattern I've seen consistently, although maybe they just need more people to report those kinds of comments. I will continue at my same rate of lurking. I'm happy to be pleasantly surprised, that has just not been what I've seen so far.

[–]BEB 7 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 0 fun8 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Got it and I'm sorry about what you've experienced.

I just ignore the bitter gatekeepers in the feminist movement - they're the same type that chased off women from the feminist movement in the 1970s. And then I try to connect with the ones who are simpatico and who are doing concrete things, because they tend to be fun and funny. I hope you encounter that type of feminist soon, there are many of them! Hope to see you around.

[–]reluctant_commenter 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I just ignore the bitter gatekeepers in the feminist movement - they're the same type that chased off women from the feminist movement in the 1970s.

Yeah, I hear you. I know there's been some of this around for a while, it's not something unique to today. Quite frankly I haven't had the energy to really consider how I feel about feminism, my views have changed a lot since the last time I have. We'll see. Thank you. :) Hope to see you more around too regardless.