Tumblr and QT rheroric is characterized by a lot of categorization. In many cases, these categories do not seem to even describe real phenomena-- let alone describe meaningful distinctions between real phenomena.
I am guessing most people here have heard of the "multiple types of attraction" language, which I am pretty sure came from the asexual community. For example, I have seen these terms thrown around:
- sexual attraction
- romantic attraction
- platonic attraction
- sensual attraction
- aesthetic attraction
I am curious as to whether people here think these terms are generally meaningless, only meaningful in the asexual community but not anywhere else, or broadly applicable.
I personally am confused by the idea of "romantic attraction" as a distinct thing separate from either sexual attraction or intense platonic attraction. I feel like I can understand where they are coming from with a term like "aesthetic attraction" because it is possible to appreciate the superficial looks of a person of any gender without a desire to have sex with them, be in a relationship with them, or anything else.
I am also confused by "sensual attraction which seems to be defined as.. the desire to cuddle someone without feeling romantic towards them or wanting to be their friend? Lol:
https://medium.com/@Michael_Paramo/on-sensual-attraction-yes-sometimes-people-do-just-want-to-cuddle-ef70fdb8d1f9
The part that most intrigues me is that we often say "same-sex attraction", etc., without clarifying the qualities of that attraction. What does "attraction" mean to you and are these more-specific terms all full of bullshit, or relevant to understanding what we mean when we talk about our experiences as LGB people?
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