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No-random-hookups isn’t really an orientation though. I’m not demisexual and I need to actually meet someone and talk to them until I decide if I want to sleep with them. It’s important to a lot of people to get to know someone to be attracted to them. I feel like hookup culture might be creating some idea that being cautious and spending time with someone is not a normal step to becoming more attracted to them.