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[–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 13 insightful - 1 fun13 insightful - 0 fun14 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

I understand that, but why did the guy find it demeaning?

[–]nbailey73[S] 30 insightful - 5 fun30 insightful - 4 fun31 insightful - 5 fun -  (3 children)

He told me he found it demeaning because it was “what was used to describe us a mental illness” at one point.

[–][deleted] 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (2 children)

He would rather be a manservant than a homosexual. Lol

[–]nbailey73[S] 26 insightful - 2 fun26 insightful - 1 fun27 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I’d much rather be a homosexual man than a “queer man”.

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I remember the gays boys being called “fucking queers” in my hometown in the 90s. All of this shit that is happening to us again is actually triggering some heavy grief from the times when I defended my gay male buddies from homophobes, even from police homophobes. I was a lesbian but dudes were just gross with lesbians, they were violent with gay men, it was horrible.

This homo defending ppl who are attacking homos is really fucking my head up. All of the homophobic LGBT people are really hurting us that survived literal violence to be free. It’s upsetting