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[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 59 insightful - 4 fun59 insightful - 3 fun60 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

Not really related to this topic, but I sent Buck Angel a DM the other day, thanking him for calling out his own community for all the bullshit they sprout, and for being a great human being, and he sent me a very nice reply. I've no-one to share my little fangirl moment with, so I'm telling you guys. :D

It's a fucking disgrace how the TRAs are treating Buck Angel. He's being a voice of reason, but clearly that's unpopular in 2020.

[–]zerosis 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Back when I was still watching Contrapoints ( I was basically a TRA), I remember the entire Twitterverse and half of reddit turning on Contra for having Buck provide literally five seconds of voice work for a video. It was kind of insane. They are like dogmatic search and destroy robots.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Oh yes, I saw that, too. I have a hard time grasping how quick they are to turn on one of their own. You'd think they'd give her the benefit of doubt, but no. It's like scientology; a toxic, crazy cult. Contra's "Cancelled" video was great, though. I disagree with her on almost everything, but I appreciate her humour.

[–]zerosis 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, I don't dislike Contra as a person, I think she has a sort of empathy/open-mindedness and semi self-awareness that her followers and fellow TRAs lack, to be honest. Even back then I found it incredibly weird to witness the dogpile that resulted from that one five-second clip. She wasn't endorsing Buck's views, or even giving a platform, but any amount of association at all is enough to throw a person to the wolves. It's made even worse by the fact that if you dig into Buck's history and current life, Buck is an incredibly reasonable and stand-up person.

I recently started watching Blaire White's videos (she who must not be named, I always avoided her like the plague before) and find that my views on identity politics line up almost completely with hers, and she can be surprisingly articulate in a debate, though her style of showmanship and cheap personal shots at people can be off-putting sometimes. I think it's important to have outspoken trans people like Blaire, though, who are adamant about the fact that biological sex is real and has real implications, and that genital 'preferences' aren't transphobic, and that trans people pushing others to deny reality is harming not only their own community, but everyone else's.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, I'm with you there. I've been a subscriber of Blaire for years. She's not perfect (like you said, those cheap shots aren't cool), but she has a good head on her shoulders and I'm always interested to hear her opinions. People like her, Buck, and Rose of Dawn are trans voices well worth hearing. It's so important that they keep talking; not all trans people are TRAs and I think people need to know that. Personally I try to follow as many reasonable trans people as I can, just so I won't forget TRAs are a hardship for them, too.

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's a pretty smart guy.