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[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 59 insightful - 4 fun59 insightful - 3 fun60 insightful - 4 fun -  (16 children)

Not really related to this topic, but I sent Buck Angel a DM the other day, thanking him for calling out his own community for all the bullshit they sprout, and for being a great human being, and he sent me a very nice reply. I've no-one to share my little fangirl moment with, so I'm telling you guys. :D

It's a fucking disgrace how the TRAs are treating Buck Angel. He's being a voice of reason, but clearly that's unpopular in 2020.

[–]zerosis 35 insightful - 2 fun35 insightful - 1 fun36 insightful - 2 fun -  (4 children)

Back when I was still watching Contrapoints ( I was basically a TRA), I remember the entire Twitterverse and half of reddit turning on Contra for having Buck provide literally five seconds of voice work for a video. It was kind of insane. They are like dogmatic search and destroy robots.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 16 insightful - 1 fun16 insightful - 0 fun17 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

Oh yes, I saw that, too. I have a hard time grasping how quick they are to turn on one of their own. You'd think they'd give her the benefit of doubt, but no. It's like scientology; a toxic, crazy cult. Contra's "Cancelled" video was great, though. I disagree with her on almost everything, but I appreciate her humour.

[–]zerosis 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

Yeah, I don't dislike Contra as a person, I think she has a sort of empathy/open-mindedness and semi self-awareness that her followers and fellow TRAs lack, to be honest. Even back then I found it incredibly weird to witness the dogpile that resulted from that one five-second clip. She wasn't endorsing Buck's views, or even giving a platform, but any amount of association at all is enough to throw a person to the wolves. It's made even worse by the fact that if you dig into Buck's history and current life, Buck is an incredibly reasonable and stand-up person.

I recently started watching Blaire White's videos (she who must not be named, I always avoided her like the plague before) and find that my views on identity politics line up almost completely with hers, and she can be surprisingly articulate in a debate, though her style of showmanship and cheap personal shots at people can be off-putting sometimes. I think it's important to have outspoken trans people like Blaire, though, who are adamant about the fact that biological sex is real and has real implications, and that genital 'preferences' aren't transphobic, and that trans people pushing others to deny reality is harming not only their own community, but everyone else's.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Oh, I'm with you there. I've been a subscriber of Blaire for years. She's not perfect (like you said, those cheap shots aren't cool), but she has a good head on her shoulders and I'm always interested to hear her opinions. People like her, Buck, and Rose of Dawn are trans voices well worth hearing. It's so important that they keep talking; not all trans people are TRAs and I think people need to know that. Personally I try to follow as many reasonable trans people as I can, just so I won't forget TRAs are a hardship for them, too.

[–]notdelusionalbased faggot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

He's a pretty smart guy.

[–]Ossidiana 27 insightful - 2 fun27 insightful - 1 fun28 insightful - 2 fun -  (8 children)

You see, Buck has two things that trigger TRAs:

1) he's a woman 2) she's voicing her opinion

of course that's gonna make them VERY pissed.

On a side note, I found many transwomen and transmen on Twitter who fully support Rowling. Further increasing my theory that this isn't and never ever was about real transpeople.

[–]indeepshadowsBi woman 14 insightful - 2 fun14 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

You may have a point. Even after everything, maybe they see Buck as a woman on some level (I don't, but that's not the point). And we all know treating women like this is perfectly okay in their books; one only needs to look at the responses JK Rowling is getting.

And you're right; there's tons of trans people who agree with Rowling. It's just that they're automatically cancelled and harassed to an inch of their lives if they dare voice that. It's obvious TRAs aren't actually fighting for trans people, else they wouldn't treat anyone they deem as "transmeds" like shit.

[–]insta 10 insightful - 2 fun10 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 2 fun -  (5 children)

1) he's a woman 2) she's voicing her opinion

I think the reality that he's also very passable also impacts their hatred. The closer the trans person is to "normal" the more isolated that person is from the trans community it seems. I think a lot of it is just a pity party mixed in with "crabs in a bucket" syndrome.

[–]Ossidiana 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

No matter how passable she is, she's still a woman. I mean - I can use a Snapchat filter and look perfectly passable as the other gender, in an instant. I'm saying this only because if I'm complaining about transwomen being men, then I also can't deny that transmen are women. Even if transmen aren't dangerous at all. That being said, Buck's a good person. And that's what really counts, not the gender bullcrap.

[–]insta 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I mean - I can use a Snapchat filter and look perfectly passable as the other gender, in an instant.

I don't mean to be an asshole but this isn't nearly as clever or thought provoking as you think it is. "Passing" is definitely a thing, the only "passing" that matters is in person otherwise that's just catfishing which isn't even a trans-exclusive thing.

The trans lobby doesn't hate Buck because she's a woman or trans, they hate her because she doesn't puppet their talking points and she's passing.

[–]Ossidiana 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

"Passing" is definitely a thing, the only "passing" that matters is in person

"Passing" as the other gender, in person, just requires more work than a one-second snapchat filter. But it's still "passing". it's a disguise, that's the point I was trying to make.

That some people would destroy their bodies to make their disguise more believable, is absurd to me.

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    [–]automoderatorHuman-Exclusionary Radical Overlord[M] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

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    [–]zeusdx1118 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    this isn't and never ever was about real transpeople.

    Agreed.

    [–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 6 insightful - 1 fun6 insightful - 0 fun7 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Buck sees the lgb tq+ split forming and is working against time and much of the trans community to heal relations by tackling the instigators. But I think it's too late and gonna happen anyway, as their community may already be too messed up by the tras, genderkin and poisoned by vested pharma interests at this point.

    [–]notdelusionalbased faggot 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    She seems like a nice person.

    [–]artetolife 49 insightful - 4 fun49 insightful - 3 fun50 insightful - 4 fun -  (5 children)

    How is that post not off-topic? Does litterally every sub have to be their soapbox?

    [–][deleted] 35 insightful - 5 fun35 insightful - 4 fun36 insightful - 5 fun -  (2 children)

    Yes. Center of everything.

    [–]PainfulTruthsMatter 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    You're not centering these stunning and brave men enough in a women's group? Literal murder. Not letting a stunning and brave man into a women's rape shelter? Literal violence.

    [–]Bahgawd 6 insightful - 2 fun6 insightful - 1 fun7 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    If they're not the center of everything it's TRANSPHOBIC. My god. Don't you know how nothing else matters besides being trans???

    [–]VexbaneAramori 7 insightful - 2 fun7 insightful - 1 fun8 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    my thoughts exactly

    [–]LoganBlade 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    yes

    [–]haveanicedaytoo💗💜💙 30 insightful - 18 fun30 insightful - 17 fun31 insightful - 18 fun -  (1 child)

    Yeah, I've been sensing TRA presence in that sub for a long time :C

    They're slowly infiltrating every sub. Hopefully they leave my cat subs alone. We all know how they feel about pussy...

    [–]zeusdx1118 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Hopefully they leave my cat subs alone.

    LOL

    [–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 36 insightful - 2 fun36 insightful - 1 fun37 insightful - 2 fun -  (12 children)

    I wonder if they are planting stuff in subs so they can test for transphobia and get the sub banned. They want to control the narrative, that's the sjw way. No dissent.

    [–]PainfulTruthsMatter 25 insightful - 1 fun25 insightful - 0 fun26 insightful - 1 fun -  (7 children)

    They're already purposefully colonizing spaces elsewhere with the intent of making everywhere politically aligned with their movement's goals, wouldn't be a surprise.

    [–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (4 children)

    intent of making everywhere politically aligned with their movement's goals

    yea you said it better than me... that's always the end goal. it always explains the "do I belong here uwu" posts

    [–]fuck_reddit 17 insightful - 1 fun17 insightful - 0 fun18 insightful - 1 fun -  (3 children)

    That explains a lot... those posts always drive me crazy. Like no, this is a nsfw sub for gay men, why would a biological woman "belong" here???? But if they're trying to get them banned, I guess that's the perfect way to do it...

    [–]PainfulTruthsMatter 20 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 0 fun21 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    They're setting up a lose/lose scenario where either you allow your space to be invaded by someone who doesn't belong due to something physically immutable (their sex), or you say no and get labelled a bigot and risk your entire community banned in a heartbeat. Same thing happened in the r/PCOS group (women suffering from polycystic ovarian syndrome) which got invaded by men who got it banned for transphobia because it wasn't inclusive of men (who literally do not have ovaries): https://twitter.com/krithika0/status/1280889930273546241

    [–]windrunner 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I dont think pcos was banned though, last I heard they just brought in new mods and one of them was trans

    [–]PainfulTruthsMatter 15 insightful - 1 fun15 insightful - 0 fun16 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    My bad, you're right, it went private for 2 days then opened, firmly under the control of stunning and brave men who identify as women ready to denounce vile TERFs. https://twitter.com/krithika0/status/1280890176210788352

    Hostile takeover might actually be worse than an outright ban.

    [–][deleted] 10 insightful - 1 fun10 insightful - 0 fun11 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I posted previously somewhere, that they use masstagger to alert all of their -what to call them- crazos, to ban subs, even below their original 5K max, because it it had GC content. The one that they referred to had only 3k subscribed.

    It’s a cult. Transcult.

    [–]tuesday 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    and yet, supposedly, they are so small in number.
    something doesn't add up there

    I mean, how can such a small number of transpeople colonize every sub in reddit? It has to be with owner approval

    [–]fr_bandersnatchghey... 8 insightful - 2 fun8 insightful - 1 fun9 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    Haven't there been insider claims that the "ban hate subs" folks use false flag attacks and even post child porn on target subs with the intent of getting the sub shut down?

    [–]zeusdx1118 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Yes. They do this constantly on right politics subs too.

    [–]xanditAGAB (Assigned Gay at Birth) 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I've heard some say that but I couldn't say for sure.

    [–]notdelusionalbased faggot 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I think that's giving them too much credit. They are so insecure that it manifests in an organic act of desperation for validation. When this meets resistance from normal people, they overreact in tyrannical ways. That's what people with extreme feelings of inferiority do.

    [–]Lessom 19 insightful - 5 fun19 insightful - 4 fun20 insightful - 5 fun -  (0 children)

    TRA are incredibly unhinged. They clearly are trying to spread their cult ideology to as many people as possible.

    [–]OPPRESSED_REPTILIANIntersex male | GNC | Don't call me "a gay", "twink" or "queen" 13 insightful - 7 fun13 insightful - 6 fun14 insightful - 7 fun -  (1 child)

    Eh, good riddance. I never like straight bashing and referring to them as "the straights" and "heteros" is really no better than using mocking terms for gay people.

    [–]joogabahGay shows the way 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    I think it is fair to critique heterosexuality as an institution that is demanded and enforced by the state and the church. I mean, why should they even care or have an interest? It is literally totalitarian to police people's sex lives (and trim their genitals at birth - tho that is a tangent).

    [–][deleted] 12 insightful - 3 fun12 insightful - 2 fun13 insightful - 3 fun -  (0 children)

    I am going to nerd here for a minute. What has happened with the transgender movement, always makes me think of my favorite TV sci-fi show: Battlestar Galactica. (Free on SciFi channel now, fyi). Edit: the 2009 one, not the ‘70’s. Starbuck- heart be still.

    Anyway, at the beginning of the show, there is this quote:

    "The Cylons were created by man. They rebelled. They evolved. There are many copies. And they have a plan ...

    [–]powpowpowpow 11 insightful - 5 fun11 insightful - 4 fun12 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

    That's annoying. I used to love that sub bc they would make fun of sexist expectations for women in straight relationships and I would love it bc I also hate how pressured I feel by my family to follow this roles (im a straight woman)

    It seems that every sub that dares to speak about women's issues or jokes about it is slowlying invaded by theses clowns...

    [–]zeusdx1118 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

    Yeah. Pretty much.

    [–]tangleofsnakes 12 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 0 fun13 insightful - 1 fun -  (2 children)

    Do they know who Buck Angel is? I thought that was their go-to "would you really want this person in women's bathrooms!?"

    [–]zeusdx1118 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

    I had to google him and I found this. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buck_Angel

    In the part of his gender transition it says,

    Angel was unable to find appropriate help for completing his gender transition during his adolescent years.[9] He eventually met a therapist who affirmed his gender instead of viewing him as a "gay woman."

    Sounds a lot different than his twitter does. Along with that, paragraph after paragraph it sounds like something a trans extremist wrote out themselves via the edit feature and put there to use his image for themselves to set up some kind of validation scheme. I wonder if he would agree with any of it.

    [–]notdelusionalbased faggot 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    It seems like she realizes the whole transition thing is not everything it can be made up to be and her reacting to the jkr story seems to bear this out.

    [–]Criticallacitirc 11 insightful - 2 fun11 insightful - 1 fun12 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

    Buck referring to himself as a boomer because he is a baby boomer. He was born in the baby boomer generation. Words have no meaning with these people & constantly shift. 🙄🙄🙄

    [–]notdelusionalbased faggot 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Words have no meaning with these people & constantly shift.

    Sort of like calling a female, "he".

    [–]MarkJeffersonTight defenses and we draw the line 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    Exactly, it has nothing to do with being "proud" of it or anything like that. Buck just uses language as it's meant to be used.. To describe things accurately. What a terrible crime.

    [–]HappyGay 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

    God I love JK Rowling these days. The best part about her is, that no matter how hard they huff and they puff, the TRAs cannot blow her house down. She’s estimated to be worth $650M-$1.2B depending on the source you use, she can sit around and say “Fuck you.” to the TRAs all day long for the rest of her life, a thousand life times even if she could, and there isn’t a damn thing they can do to ruin her. At this point I think she’s just liking comments like this to egg them on because it is kind of fun to see what they do and say. Also because it reveals their true nature. Honestly, I hope she keeps it up till the end of time too, nice to have a voice like hers on the side of sanity.