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[–]JoshuaNumbers 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I stopped looking for people that were my kind of pretty, and started looking for people who were my kind of ain't-pretty. There are a lot more of those.

[–]NutterButterFlutter[S] 2 insightful - 1 fun2 insightful - 0 fun3 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Has that helped? Have your relationships changed, or your way of being in a relationship changed? Did you opt-out of even trying for a while before you made the switch?