I was a lurker too. Think that was the first place I found some sane discussions but I had to search for a long time.

Unfortunately sticking around radfem spaces too much made me start thinking more extreme, and I try to stay kinda balanced and not spend hours online lol. For my own sanity and for the sake of remaining open to other opinions. So I hadn't been on in a while. I can't believe it got axed :/