I honestly don't think you understand the impact of being an ugly yet not visibly disfigured male (there's a difference between genetics as a cause and environment as a cause). Talk to me when you go outside and get looked at like you're a criminal just for existing. It's not that I think I'm unworthy, it's that everyone else does, and they make it blatantly obvious way past the point of covering it up.

Haircuts and shit are cope, when you're a 5/10 maybe sure it can help, but when you have a legit subhuman face your best hope is surgery, to women, what matters most is a man's bone structure, everything on top of that is just icing. Manlets have it the worst though, because surgery can't even help them.

Not only women care about looks and height, look into the halo effect, men over 6'0 are vastly overrepresented in top Fortune 500 positions for instance, people (men and women) when asked to make judgements about someone based on their face almost overwhelmingly immediately associated bad to worst traits with the ugliest males while saying the handsome ones looked successful and moral. This can pervade even when somebody knows an individual personally, I've had people I considered my friends tell me that they thought I was literally planning a mass shooting, admittedly based entirely off how I look.

Really, don't just lurk here, go to /r/blackpillscience on reddit and read, edumacate yoself, and once you're attuned to human behaviour in the presence of an ugly male, you'll start noticing it everywhere and maybe you can begin to understand where all this "hate" comes from.