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[–]jet199 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (2 children)

 "Gaslighting in women's health: No, it's not just in your head." Men tend to be more persistent with their doctors when they have concerns about their health, Grossman said. "Women may have a harder time pushing back and advocating for themselves," she added. "They feel like they need to be good patients, which means accepting what their doctors tell them. But by doing so, they're stripping themselves of a voice."

Well this is so much bollocks it's actually shocking.

No, love, doctors are just shit and sexist.

It's well known that men avoid going to the doctors and get easily fobbed off when they do while women go in with a check list and hassle the doctors for the diagnosis they want.

Every woman I know, of all different personalities, has been fobbed of by a doctor for something which was a real problem. Nothing to do with their approach, the doctors just size people up and make assumptions based on that then ignore anything you say which doesn't fit with their assumptions. The only way around it at the moment is just to keep going back and seeing different people, like this woman did.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

the doctors just size people up and make assumptions based on that then ignore anything you say which doesn't fit with their assumptions.

They do it to guys too. It's just more common not to take women seriously.

[–]jet199 4 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah, I know they do it to guys to.

There was an experiment with psychiatrists where they have the same case notes to a group of therapists but with different pics and names. For one set of notes of they got a middle class white guy they diagnosed schizophrenia but if they got a working class white guy or a black guy, with the same symptoms, they diagnosed drug addiction.

[–]Zapped 3 insightful - 3 fun3 insightful - 2 fun4 insightful - 3 fun -  (3 children)

A friend of mine walked away from a six-figure job in the 1980's and was close to making even more because his doctors told him stress was causing his fatigue, genral pain, headaches, and irritability. Six months after he quit, his new doctor found thyroid disease and he was back to normal (minus having to take Synthroid).

[–]jet199 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah my sister left her £100k job in banking because the doctor told her the stress was causing her skin problems. He told her he would put on her notes that she was a hypochondriac if she kept coming back about it.

She saw someone on the TV with the same issue. Bought one cheap product and it disappeared. Turned out she just had a skin infection.

[–][deleted] 2 insightful - 2 fun2 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

Oh damn, that's got to hurt. Did he sue?

[–]Zapped 3 insightful - 2 fun3 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

No. He's not the suing type. He even moved down South from NYC to alleviate the stress, so it actually worked out for him and his family, minus the income.