The sources (from the most well-recognised bodies on these matters) I furnished you with expose your massive false equivalence for what it is. You're governed by your feelings – misogynistic feelings. Here are the links again for your edification:

86% of victims of violent acts by a significant other were female

https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/fvs03.pdf

77% of people injured by an intimate partner were female

https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/nisvs_report2010-a.pdf

72% of intimate partner victimizations resulting in serious physical injury were female, perpetrated by male:

https://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/ipvav9311.pdf

Research reviews have concluded that the majority of women's physical violence against (intimate partner/domestic violence) men is in response to being abused by those men:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2968709/

77% of all domestic homicide victims are female: According to the Supplementary Homicide Reports of the FBI’s Uniform Crime Reporting Program in 2005, 1,181 females and 329 males were killed by their intimate partners.

https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/222320.pdf

In the cases of male homicide victims, usually the victim was an abuser:

http://ncdsv.org/images/If%20I%20had%20one%20more%20day_Fatality%20Review_2006.pdf

Similarly, male victims of domestic violence homicides are much more likely than female victims to have been identified previously as abusers of their eventual killers:

https://www.ncjrs.gov/App/Publications/abstract.aspx?ID=130043