I am glad you are trying to remain open-minded because you are so young. It is totally normal to feel insecure about your body and unsure of how you fit into the world. You are going to evolve over the next years and likely be in a very different place mentally and emotionally from where you are now. Enjoy the journey of self-discovery, and I recommend not trying to fit yourself into neat little boxes and labels. So much angst these days seems to come from people who are struggling to fit themselves into a label instead of just just letting themselves be.

As for Ovarit, I don't really post there either because I do get a groupthinky vibe. However, that is not limited to Ovarit. That is pretty much a feature of most internet fora. Everyone is siloed into groups where everyone thinks alike and people are constantly on the look-out for dissenters to exile. It is not healthy. It sucks that they banned you, but they are harming themselves most in the end by limiting their access to different perspectives.