I think the best thing to do for someone who is lost in their own delusions is to tell them they are lost in their own delusions. If the store you want to go to is just down the street from where you live, but you drive the other way, get on a hiway, pay a few tolls and over-complicate the simple, then the best thing we can do is not suggest "EZ Pass" for the tolls but say "you are over-complicating this."

You see this in the arts, and you see it all sorts of other areas. You can get so enamored with details and complications, crazy techniques or obscure patterns, that the simple truth of things is forgotten. This is why I take zero steps away from Men and Women as defined by the reproductive function of the genitals.

To the question of DSDs I ask those posing the question to answer it and point out it has nothing to do with gender. To the notion that someone feels like a man or woman or they always "knew" they were not what their sex is" I say none of us do and none of us are. We are fully human with all the same feelings and insecurities and the same sense of lacking.

The one thing I realized most recently, and am perhaps more insistent on than the trans idea, is that there is really no such thing as "cis", that is pure projection, if not envy or groundless disdain. At best there are those who are blissfully unaware of all this bs, but they might be dudes who write poems or like figure skating, or cooking, or any presumably girly things, or women who like rugby or football, or carpentry, or The Three Stooges, or what ever else guys are supposed to like.