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[–]terf41percentjanny 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I'm bi not lesbian, but no I would not date a person who supports the tras. whether its male or female, because I can't stand hypocrisy. I am going to say this, as a bi woman, who occasionally likes dating females, tras make it infuriatingly hard to express that part of my sexuality, because its harder to explain why I who occasionally likes one or both of sexes may be not be interested in dating a trans woman. there's so much more guilt trips and shaming when I come across one that makes looking for a woman to date simply not worth it in the long run. Just because occasionally I want penis, doesn't mean I want a girly dick, if I want that I'd go for a male, and not a female. What should be a simple no do not want, becomes a long conversation of why I should overlook factors into my attraction because its bigotted or some shit. when its in reality I only like male features on men, and female features on women, its simply hinders my attraction when its inverse. its hard for lesbians who only like women, but hinders those further who maybe inclined to like both men and women, as on one hand for normal males, its likes a fetish, and for tims its like well if you like dick then your obligated to like girly dick, and can't fall back on well I only like females to gtfo out of an awkward situation.