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[–]SanityIsGC 5 insightful - 1 fun5 insightful - 0 fun6 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

Sounds horrible.You're not biased, you're pissed off and legitimately so but how he treats you.He probably senses you don't like him and you can offset that by being a reliable, hardworker. My advice is do not make friends with any of your coworkers. Keep your head down and just work. above all do not confide in anyone at work.

[–]PeakingPeachEater[S] 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Yeah...I'm going to start focusing more on myself and not bother with coworkers. I ended up being the "class clown" amongst my coworker "friends" so they come to me for a pick-me-up...They get weirded out when I'm "quiet". That's how I really am naturally though haha.

Which reminds me...My TiM boss used to ask me questions like "Why don't you have confidence in yourself?"

I don't have low confidence, thank you. Also, whenever I do what I think I should do, I have 2 other bosses shouting at me that I did something wrong so maybe that's why I have to ask more instead of doing? (I have 3 bosses above me...the TiM is above those other two male bosses....)

Both my coworker "friends" agreed I seem to have low confidence because I used to be "quiet" like lol, okaaay? Of couse I was!!! I normally don't converse too TOO much with people. Also, was dealing with personal stuff and pregnancy on top of that. So, I think being "quiet" doesn't mean "low self-esteem". I'm just more reserved(plus it's common in my particular...multi-cultural background, parents from different countries, I pick up some things after both of them).