I think you'll like this - https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/eoxuxd/my_new_doctor_is_an_extremely_outoftouch_sjw_who/

Body here (Note did she ask her doctor what her gender was or did she just assume?)

TITLE: My new doctor is an extremely out-of-touch SJW, who thinks dysphoria can be "CURED", & doesn't believe in BIO SEX. Vent Oh man. If what I just experienced doesn't demonstrate just how harmful the tucute ideology is (in influencing the medical care of ACTUAL trans people) I don't know what will... (also TW for ftms, I guess...)

First off, I'm not the first 'trans' person this doctor has ever met, though from what she said, it seems as if I'm the only actual trans person she's ever talked to. When I explained my physical chest dysphoria (which isn't even that severe, btw) she simply asked me WHY I was dysphoric about my FEMALE chest, and when I told her I was dysphoric about my breasts because they're inherently FEMALE, she basically said this:

"You shouldn't be dysphoric about your breasts because breasts are neither male or female, breasts can be male and because you identify as male that automatically means that YOUR TITS ARE MALE UWU. Therefore, you're just pathetic and transphobic for wanting to adhere to society's expectations of strictly male-or-female. BIOLOGICAL SEX MEANS NOTHING, if you identify as male I see you as male because you are, simple."

She asked if I had a binder. I said yes, 4, but I only wear them when I need to, i.e when my breasts would otherwise be visible (my chest is SMALL AF)

She told me that I SHOULDN'T even get top surgery because I should learn to accept my breasts because they're small anyways, and that loads of men have enlarged chests... and that she's met loads of trans men who were, and I quote, "PROUD" of their FEMALE bodies and FEMALE tits.

YOU GUYS... I'M NOT MAKING THIS SH*T UP, I CAN'T 😭😭😭

rejecting top surgery is understandable for some trans men, i get it. but being "PROUD"?!?!?!? MATE...

Then SHE ASKED TO SEE MY BREASTS. FOR NO REASON AT ALL. WHY??? Why do you need to see my breasts? wtf?

I told her that I'm dysphoric because I'm not a cisgender man. She said this:

"I hate the word Cisgender. I mean, I don't introduce myself like "hey, I'm rachel and I'm a cisgender woman", because it means nothing and nobody cares. I'm a woman, and so are trans women* (I agree ofc), there's NO difference (*UMM WHAT LMFAO) and nobody will judge you for being trans, no-one will know, SO WHY ARE YOU DYSPHORIC IF PEOPLE LOOK AT YOU AND THINK YOU'RE CIS? I THOUGHT YOU WERE CIS, MYSELF!"

UM. Because, Karen, I may look like a cis man but, biologically, I AM NOT. I have FEMALE genitalia and a FEMALE body, you can't see it BUT I CAN, HENCE= PHYSICAL DYSPHORIA. I don't experience significant SOCIAL dysphoria anymore because I'm gendered correctly in public, but that doesn't change my sex.

Then she asked about my gentitals.

I told her I'm considering meta when I'm older, because i'm SUICIDAL over my female genitals. I've almost successfully killed myself in the past due to my genitals, for hecks sake. SHE KNOW THIS. I told her that I'm trying to save up for a REALISTIC FTM PROSTHETIC, not just a packer, but a PROSTHETIC so I don't look down and feel like a fraud and dysphoric mess over the sight of socks in my jocks.

She said "Don't get a prosthetic, YOU DON'T NEED A PENIS, get one of those LESBIAN WOMEN STRAP-ONS THAT LESBIANS USE TO FUCK OTHER WOMEN IN THE VAG/ANUS FROM SEXYLAND AND WEAR THAT IN YOUR PANTS, BECAUSE THAT'S TOTALLY COMPARABLE AND IT'S THE SAME THING, YOU DON'T NEED A REAL DICK, OR SURGERY, USE A FEMALE STRAP ON"

Yes, Karen. Because bright pink glittery rainbow dildo strap-ons with glow-in-the-dark leather kink harnesses are TOTALLY comparable to actual real male human genitalia and it won't make me, a 16-yr-old (who should NOT be wearing a fcking strap-on) feel even more suicidal or anything, right? RRRRRRIIIIGHT??? Uwuuu.

Would you tell a 40-something cisgender male war vet who lost his penis in an accident to wear a PINK GLITTERY LESBIAN GIRL STRAP-ON instead of getting an ACTUAL PROSTHETIC? NO. That would make him feel HUMILIATED & SHAMED, which is exactly how I felt. I was crying from the humiliation, you guys, it was horrid. I'm not a lesbian and I've never even identified as such.

Would you tell someone born without an arm to just use one of those blow-up skeleton arms from those Halloween stores as if it's an adequate substitute for an actual prosthetic arm? I HOPE NOT.

Oh.

But then she asked me why I was wearing GREY nail polish and SHAMED me for it... I PASS, Karen! I would personally never wear it if I didn't pass, but I do, so I personally feel COMFORTABLE with it. She was YELLING at me about my nail polish because apparently "only girls wear nail polish", yet she said that Biological sex is apparently BS and that men can have tits and vaginas. UM OK. Having my tits on display is masc but grey nail polish isn't? right.

She kept on asking me "Why do you want to transition?"

me- "because I'm not a woman and I'd kill myself"

"But you told me that you'll ALWAYS be dysphoric because you aren't a cis man so why bother transitioning"

me- "Because I'd be LESS dysphoric, I'd be able to function, I'd at least look in the mirror and see my own reflection, it'd improve my quality of life"

"But if you'll never be cis WhY TranSiTiON"

I WOULD KILL MYSELF, KAREN. IF MEDICAL TRANSITIONING WAS ILLEGAL I'D BE DEAD BY NOW, I'D HAVE NO HOPE FOR THE FUTURE, ETC.

"You need to learn to accept and LOVE your female body, I've met a trans man once who LOVED his vagina and LOVED using it!!! YOU CAN OVERCOME DYSPHORIA!!!"

VAGINAS ARE FEMALE, KAREN, YOU'RE A DOCTOR, YOU SHOULD KNOW THAT. NOT MALE.

"But BIO SEX ISN'T REAL, VAGINAS CAN BE MALE IF THE OWNER OF SAID VAGINA IDENTIFIES AS MALE UWU, CISGENDER IS BS, YOU MIGHT BE GENDERFLUID XE/XIM SO I WOULDN'T MEDICALLY TRANSITION JUST IN CASE, YOU MIGHT NOT BE A BINARY TRANS PERSON!!!"

ohhhhh boy.

yeah needless to say I left crying, a humiliated wreck. the hell.

never seeing her again