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[–]hufflepuff-poet 11 insightful - 1 fun11 insightful - 0 fun12 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

I'm so sorry your going through all this. I've experienced similar events like this. None of this was your fault!!! He disrespected your boundaries and disregarded your feelings and comfort, you were doing a perfectly normal thing and he was the one who was in the wrong by violating your boundaries! I understand what you mean about everything happening too fast and being unable to respond, it's difficult to know what to do or even to process what's happening in the moment and not dissociate. Please take time for yourself, be patient with yourself and please when your ready talk to someone in real life, holding all this pain amd confusion in rarely helps in the long term. Love you and so sorry your dealing with this.

[–]DevianttKitten[S] 1 insightful - 1 fun1 insightful - 0 fun2 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you