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[–]CastleHoward 37 insightful - 2 fun37 insightful - 1 fun38 insightful - 2 fun -  (1 child)

I'm so sorry he did this to you. Something very similar happened to me about 15 years ago. It's ok to have all of the conflicting thoughts and emotions. The only advice I can give is to never see him again. He's not a good man and he's already proved himself to be dangerous. You don't have to give a reason for the break up. Just saying that you have lost interest is reason enough.

[–]DevianttKitten[S] 19 insightful - 2 fun19 insightful - 1 fun20 insightful - 2 fun -  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm sorry you've been through the same kind of thing.

Up til now I was the only female I knew who had never been sexually assaulted and it's kinda heavy feeling to not have that now. I understand the immediate turmoil now, I didn't before.

And yeah, I don't intend to see him again.