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[–]Shesstealthy 75 insightful - 5 fun75 insightful - 4 fun76 insightful - 5 fun -  (1 child)

What I would like to know is this. Why is it totally ok and understandable to ask women to remove or hide reminders of female biological function because it distresses trans women so much?

But NOT OK to ask trans women to remove or hide reminders of male biological function because it distresses women who have been raped or otherwise harmed by male-bodied people?

Look TBH I don't like changing in front of other females that much and I'd sadly be a bit more on edge if I knew that woman was a lesbian. It would be even MORE uncomfortable if that person was a boner owner.

[–]RestingWitchface 14 insightful - 1 fun14 insightful - 0 fun15 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

But NOT OK to ask trans women to remove or hide reminders of male biological function because it distresses women who have been raped or otherwise harmed by male-bodied people?

Fixed it for you. If women's boundaries were respected from the get-go, we wouldn't have rape and sexual trauma. Safe spaces should not be reserved for those who have been violated in the past.