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[–]gencritcurious 4 insightful - 1 fun4 insightful - 0 fun5 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

I totally get this. I’m a lesbian too, and i was indoctrinated into the he/him lesbian cult when i was 14 or so?(sometime last year). As someone who was in it at one point, i can safely say its all bullshit. Using he/him online was just a way for me to be ~quirky~ and justify my depression with “im constantly being misgendered”. Ive seen the he/him thing from both sides (tra and gencrit), and not once have i seen a compelling argument for it. tbh ive never seen a male he/him lesbian... usually the males go for she/they instead... but my point still stands, he him lesbians are bullshit