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[–]marmalade 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (1 child)

'Coolness' from men means 'does what I want and nothing else.' I'd rather be a TERF than have some dudebros think I'm an easy target because I crave their approval. I hope they all wake up to this sooner than later.

[–]littlerbear 3 insightful - 1 fun3 insightful - 0 fun4 insightful - 1 fun -  (0 children)

Same. I could never pull off the 'cool girl' thing. It always seemed sad and miserable to me.